The answer to the question What Can I Do To Get My Ex Back? may lay within this blog
Most people find themselves asking “What can I do to get my ex back?” following a breakup. They ask themselves “Is there anything I could have done differently?” Then they decide to write a letter saying how sorry they are or anything that they think may bring their ex back.
The first thing to do is not to think “what can I do to get my ex back?” but to make time to go out and make friends, relax, unwind and generally have some ‘Me Time’. The main thing is to do something that you enjoy. This will do you the world of good and stop you from ‘thinking’ all the time.
You need time to look at your relationship objectively and this is not possible without getting a break from constantly thinking about the relationship and beating yourself up over things you should or shouldn’t have done in order to make it work. This gives you time to decide what the next step is. What do you want from the relationship. Is it really worth saving? Is it what you really want?
Give it some time..
Do you still want to get back together with your ex? Do you want to now spread your wings? If you still want to get back together with your ex, you will need to find out how they are feeling and if it is what they want as well.
Do NOT beg your ex to come back.
Do NOT constantly telephone them.
Do NOT wait by the telephone for them to call.
Do KEEP yourself busy
Do MEET new people or go out with friends
If you decide that you want to get back with your ex you have to tread carefully. Don’t rush in without any prior thought. Play it cool.
Show your ex that you can survive on your own. Play hard to get. This will make your ex really think about the situation.
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Also I have other blogs on my website at www.justbyjulie.com/blogs.html feel feel to take a look.
If you don’t rush, you will know whether it is the right time to get back with your ex. You will no longer ask “What Can I Do To Get My Ex Back” You will already have your ex back!
